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Relationship Resolution The universal problem of how to be successful in a relationship with someone else can be found in the inability for each of us to have a relationship with the only person who can ever free us to be happy: Ourselves. Sedona Intensive’s transpersonal psychologist Gaulden’s solution is to face down the demons and devils that make peaceful coexistence with a lover impossible. These monsters are: unhealthy expectations that someone else can make us happy; inappropriate affairs with men or women growing up; bad role models; skewered information from the common culture; trying to live in a relationship as you perceive others live in theirs; manipulation, control and low self-esteem. Gaulden’s and others' proven theory is that we bring unresolved issues from the families in which we were raised into our personal relationships—how our parents failed in their marriage; financial needs to better one’s self; a need to be loved and adored when one cannot love oneself. The Sedona Intensive takes the position that a flawed character, full of blame and accusations against people at home and at work, makes any kind of relationship impossible. Relationship resolution comes primarily from having a deep and abiding relationship with one’s authentic and integrated self. Read "The Process" |
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